Losing your job is never easy, and having to fire someone is never easy either. It is much like breaking up in an intimant relationship. The best you can hope for is that the person being fired (or broken up with) is not surprised and knows it is coming. This makes it slightly easier to handle, but still a depressing and deflating experience. Here are a few tips on what to do if you are fired, and a few things to do if you have to fire someone.
If You Were Just Fired
- Calm down, don’t panic, and control your emotions – You cannot take back the things you say while you are being fired. If you flip-out and start yelling at the person firing you (often an HR person who didn’t make the decision) it won’t help you. Sure, you will feel better for 30 seconds or a minute, but in the long-run it will only hurt you.
- Use level-headed thinking when considering legal options – In most cases the company is not dumb enough to fire you without just cause. To pursue a legal battle will only cost you money and time, both of you which you don’t have. Talk to multiple lawyers before even considering going after the company. If the lawyer won’t talk to you for free initially, then they are probably just in it for the money… after all, it’s down economy for them too.
- File for unemployment – This should probably be #2, but considering how litigious we are as a nation, I thought it was more important to talk about the avenue most people will pursue first. As for unemployment, don’t let pride cloud your vision… pride can’t pay the bills. Also, realize that unemployment is not a sure-thing. Depending upon why you were terminated, you might not get it. Check with you state’s department of labor.
- Update your resume – You cannot get a job without a resume. There are numerous websites and companies that can help you format and create your resume. In most cases you can find all the resources you need online.
- Talk to everyone you know, and everyone you don’t – Getting a job is more about who you know than where you apply. If you send your resume in via an online application process, most of the time you don’t have as good of a chance as if you send it in via someone you know. The key is to network. Hopefully you’ve done this before getting fired, but most people haven’t. Talk to everyone at your kid’s ball game, everyone at the bar, everyone everywhere… you never know when your next boss could be standing in front of you at the checkout line.
- Get on or update LinkedIn – For those that don’t know, LinkedIn is the professionals equivalent to Facebook. You can post the places you’ve worked, what you did there, where you went to school, and other things about you. They also have the ability to cross reference jobs you’re searching for with people in your contacts. This way you have an “in” at the company you are applying to.
- Submit your resume to a recruiter – Recruiters are often used by companies to find qualified personnel. A recruiter can also provide you tips on how to fix-up your resume, handle an interview, and other job related tips. The only downside to using a recruiter is that the company has to pay as much as 30% of your salary. This will often lead companies to only rely on a recruiter in times of desperation.
- Search the classifieds – No, not the newspaper (although you can do this too). It’s 2008, look on Craigslist for jobs. I know of a CEO of a start-up that recruits almost exclusively on Craigslist.
- Be persistent without being annoying – To you finding a job is the most important thing going on in your life. To the person looking to hire, it probably is not. Regardless of how well staffed the HR department is, someone from the specific division you are looking to work in will probably need to interview you. They probably also have numerous other things going on besides hiring you. Therefore, use your inside contact to find out the best time to talk to this person. Keep your conversations thorough but short… don’t waste their time.
- Ask other companies where you should work – It sounds desperate, but by item #10 you probably are. When you’re talking to HR people, or anyone at a company for that matter, apply item #5. Ask them if they know of any other jobs at competitors or in unrelated fields. Maybe that have a brother or mother that works at some company that is looking to hire. Again, it is all about networking.
If You Have To Fire Someone
- Don’t tell anyone that does not need to know – Rumors will occur no matter what you do. However, try and limit them by telling only those people that absolutely need to know, and only as much as they need to know. In one situation someone in HR, along with numerous other people, were being let go. Upper management did not tell that HR person, but the word got around. The HR person assured everyone that she had not heard of anyone being fired. When it actually happened, it was more of a surprise than it needed to be. If upper management had simply told the HR person that some people were going to be let go and to not answer any of those questions, the blow probably would have been softened.
- Don’t fire someone while they’re on vacation – There is never a reason to fire someone while they are on vacation. Lock them out of their accounts, e-mail, etc; then tell them in person when they come back to work. Granted, if they try and check their e-mail and it isn’t working, that will probably raise suspicions. However, nothing will ruin an already paid for vacation faster than finding out you’ve been fired. If you know they are going to be fired, don’t let them go on vacation in the first place.
- Always fire someone in person – E-mail, written letters, or God forbid a text message is not the proper way to fire someone. Have some respect for that person, regardless of what they’ve done, and fire them in person. This is going to be a tough time for that person and the least you can do is be professional and fire them in person.
- If possible, give them a severance package/ – You don’t have to provide them will full pay, or even any pay, but you should give them something. This all depends upon the job and the position; however, benefits are always a nice parting gift, even if just for a month.
- If the termination is amicable try and help them find another job – Let them keep their office to make phone calls, use the Internet, or send resumes. Give them the chance to resign (although this might affect their ability to collect unemployment.) Try and give them some of your contacts to give them a head-start. In the best situation this person might actually become a proponent of the company. People’s views of something are usually colored with the last major event that occurred… make their last day as nice as possible.